Which foreign country or culture do you feel most drawn toward?

I definitely feel torn between feeling more akin to my father's culture (Japanese) or my that of my mother (Irish).  I identify with the Eastern concept of serving being just as important as leading.  In the West, everyone is pushed to be a leader, which isn't a bad thing, but nothing is really said of the signicifance and equal importance of those of us who prefer or were born to serve.  I feel I was born to serve, and I feel like I'm contradicting the natural order of things, or my inherent tendencies, now that i'm desperately morphing into a leader. 

I also identify a lot with the reservedness and apologetic nature of Japanese culture.  When I'm around elders or highly esteemed people, I feel myself bowing and shrinking in stature.  In Japan, this is a sign of respect, but in the US it's viewed as a sign of weakness, and I think that's a big reason why I've always had a weak self-image. 

But with Irish culture, a lot of customs and mannerisms are more relaxed and so it's a lot easier for me (or anyone) to fit in and let loose and just have a good time among native Irish.  I recently visited my many relatives in Ireland this summer, and realized I could die happy there.  I am going to build a house there before I'm 35.  I just felt so at ease with everyone and their way of life.  With Japan, I feel like I can identify with their way of life and customs, but theirs are more strict or ritualistic, and i don't think i could handle that all the time.

I have half of each within me however, and I think I'll always flip flop between the two.